TheSecretsToWomensSuccess’s Podcast

 
 
Hi,
In this deeply personal episode, Irene shares a vulnerable, real-time update as she begins “day one” of becoming herself again.
This isn’t about chasing perfection, starting another diet, or fixing yourself. It’s about reclaiming your identity after illness, menopause, and seasons of self-doubt.
Irene explores why identity comes before behavior—and how every choice you make is a vote for the woman you want to become. She also shares simple ways to begin: taking a 10-minute walk, drinking a glass of water, or choosing a nourishing meal.
You’re invited to join Irene on this ongoing journey, step into the upcoming Brave Room, and remember that the path back to yourself isn’t built through perfection. It’s built through small, consistent choices.
 
xo

In the final episode of the Re-Invention Series, host Irene Lidvall delivers a powerful call to women over 40 who are ready to stop shrinking, reclaim their identity and rise into their next chapter.
This episode is about becoming the woman you admire—not by fixing yourself, but by remembering who you were before fear, expectations and survival mode taught you to play small.
Irene explores how to rebuild confidence, raise your standards and create boundaries rooted in self-respect. She also shares why financial independence matters for women at every age, and how courageous decisions can finally cut ties with the people, patterns and situations that no longer belong in your future.
In this episode, you’ll discover:
Why reinvention begins with identity, not willpower
How to stop shrinking and abandoning yourself
Why boundaries are an act of self-respect
How to raise your standards in love, business and life
Why financial independence creates freedom and choice
How to make brave decisions before you feel completely ready
What it means to reinvent yourself after 40, 50 or 60
Reinvention isn’t about becoming someone new. It’s about coming home to the confident, powerful woman who has been there all along.
Irene also introduces The Brave Room—an intimate mastermind for women who know what they want, are ready for meaningful change and don’t want to create their next chapter alone.
If you’re navigating a major life transition, rebuilding your confidence or wondering who you are now, this episode will remind you: you are not too old, it is not too late, and you do not have to keep settling for a life you’ve outgrown.
Follow Unstuck & Fking Fab** for honest conversations about confidence, identity, relationships, boundaries, women’s empowerment and reinvention after 40. If this episode speaks to you, share it with a woman who is ready to rise.
 
xox

How to Rebuild Your Life, Confidence and Identity After a Major Ending
What happens when the life you knew no longer fits—but you’re not yet sure who you’re becoming?
In Episode 70 of Unstuck & F**king Fab, Irene Lidvall explores how to rebuild your life after a breakup, divorce, career change, identity loss or major life transition—without allowing fear to design your next chapter.
You’ll discover how to stop asking, “What should I do now?” and start asking the more powerful question: “Who do I want to become?”
Irene shares practical ways to rebuild confidence, restore self-trust and become emotionally available to yourself again—including keeping small promises, forgiving your past and learning to stay with your emotions instead of abandoning yourself.
This episode is for every woman—especially women over 40—who feels caught between who she used to be and who she is ready to become.
Your next chapter won’t be built by the woman who abandoned herself. It will be built by the woman who finally chooses herself.
Listen now and begin creating a life that feels honest, aligned and completely yours.
xox

Episode 69 | Becoming Her Again: When Life No Longer Fits
What do you do when the life you've built no longer feels like yours?
In this powerful first episode of The Reinvention Series, Irene Lidvall explores the uncomfortable but life-changing season between who you were and who you're becoming.
Whether you're facing the end of a relationship, a career, motherhood, your health, or simply a version of yourself you've outgrown, this episode will help you understand why endings aren't something to fear—they're where reinvention begins.
You'll discover:• Why we cling to lives that no longer fit.• How to stop fighting change and start trusting it.• Why grief isn't weakness—it's part of becoming.• How to move through the messy middle with courage instead of certainty.• The first step to coming home to the woman you were always meant to be.
If you've been feeling stuck, lost, restless, or quietly wondering, "Is this really it?" this conversation is your reminder that you're not broken, and you're certainly not too late.
You're not falling apart.
You're shedding everything that no longer belongs to you.
And underneath it all... she's still there.
The woman who is brave.The woman who is powerful.The woman who is unapologetically herself.
Welcome to Becoming Her Again.
xox

 
In this Episode 68, Irene Lidvall dives into one of the hardest truths about love: sometimes the deepest heartbreak isn’t losing them… it’s losing yourself.
This episode explores the danger of giving too much, over-functioning in relationships, and confusing being needed, with being loved.
Irene unpacks the warning signs of the wrong relationship, the green flags of healthy love, and the powerful questions every woman should ask before sacrificing herself for love.
If you’ve ever over-given, ignored red flags, or stayed too long hoping someone would change—this conversation is for you.
Because real love should never cost you your peace, your voice, or your self-respect.
A powerful reminder:Every tear I cried built the strength inside.
 
xox

In Episode 67 of Unstuck & F**king Fab, host Irene Lidvall dives into what it really means to become an unbothered woman—not cold, not careless, but calm, grounded, self-trusting, and deeply anchored in who you are.
Irene unpacks the four habits that steal your peace and keep you emotionally hooked: chasing approval, over-explaining yourself, taking everything personally, and abandoning yourself to keep others comfortable.
This episode is your reminder that peace is power. Through practical mindset shifts, honest truths, and simple boundary-setting tools, Irene shows you how to protect your energy, trust yourself more deeply, and stop giving away your power so easily.
Because the goal isn’t to become hard—it’s to become unshakable.
Your new mantra?Not everything deserves your attention.Not everyone deserves your explanation.And nothing is worth abandoning yourself for.
 
xox
 

 
EPISODE 66: WHO’S TO BLAME?
In this powerful episode, host Irene Lidvall dives into one of the hardest truths we all face: blame.
When life hurts, it’s easy to blame other people. Sometimes we blame ourselves. And sometimes, without even realising it, we build an identity around our pain.
But here’s the truth: blame might feel protective… yet it can also keep you stuck.
In Episode 66, Irene unpacks why victimhood can feel safe, why the brain clings to certainty (even painful certainty), and how staying attached to old pain can quietly steal your future.
You’ll learn the difference between blame and responsibility — and why taking responsibility isn’t about shame, guilt, or excusing what happened.
It’s about reclaiming your power.
In this episode, you’ll discover:✨ Why blame keeps you emotionally stuck✨ How victimhood can become an identity✨ Why your brain prefers familiar pain over uncertainty✨ How to honour your pain without living there✨ Practical mindset shifts to move from powerless to powerful
This is your reminder:You can acknowledge what happened.You can honour your pain.But you do not have to build your life around it.
Healing begins when you stop asking “Who’s to blame?”…and start asking “What’s my next move?”
Because your power has always lived there.
Listen now and take your next step toward healing, growth, and becoming unstuck & fabulously free.
With love,Irene x

 
Hello Beautiful,
Have you ever found yourself second-guessing your decisions, looking to everyone else for answers, or wondering where your confidence disappeared to?
You're not alone.
In Episode 65 of Unstuck & F**king Fab, we're talking about one of the most important relationships you'll ever have — the relationship with yourself.
Somewhere along the way, many women learn to trust everyone else's opinions more than their own. We become people-pleasers, peace-keepers, and approval-seekers, while slowly losing connection with the woman inside who actually knows what she wants.
In this episode, I share why self-trust isn't something you're born with or without — it's something you build. We'll explore how ignoring your intuition chips away at your confidence, why your body often knows the truth before your mind does, and how the two powerful words "I Am" are quietly shaping your entire life.
You'll discover:
• Why people-pleasing is costing you more than you realise• How to reconnect with your intuition and inner wisdom• The surprising reason confidence has nothing to do with success• How to rebuild trust in yourself one small promise at a time• The simple question that can change the direction of your life
If you've been feeling stuck, disconnected, or unsure of yourself lately, this episode is your invitation to come home to you.
Because the truth is...
You don't need more advice.
You don't need more permission.
You don't need someone else to tell you who you are.
You simply need to start listening to yourself again.
Listen now and take the first step back to becoming the unapologetic, confident, fabulous woman you were always meant to be.
With love,
Irene x
Host of Unstuck & F**king Fab
❤️

 
Episode 64: Why Fixing Everyone Else Is Exhausting You
 
 
Are you the woman everyone comes to for help?
The one who always has the answers, solves the problems, keeps the peace, and somehow ends up carrying everyone else's emotional baggage?
In this episode of Unstuck & F**king Fab, Irene Lidvall dives into the hidden reasons so many women feel compelled to fix, rescue, and save the people around them.
You'll discover why this pattern often begins in childhood, how being "the strong one" can become part of your identity, and why trying to manage other people's lives may actually be keeping you stuck in your own.
Irene shares the surprising benefits we get from fixing others, the heavy price we pay in exhaustion and resentment, and how constantly rescuing people can stop them from growing.
She also tackles a topic that will hit home for many women in long-term relationships: why mothering your partner can slowly kill attraction, intimacy, and desire.
This episode is a loving wake-up call to stop carrying what isn't yours, start setting healthy boundaries, and come back home to yourself.
Because you can care without carrying.
Love without rescuing.
Support without sacrificing yourself.
In this episode you'll learn:
✨ Why you feel responsible for everyone else's happiness
✨ The hidden rewards of being the fixer
✨ How rescuing can prevent growth
✨ The real reason you're exhausted and resentful
✨ Why mothering your partner is a romance killer
✨ How to stop losing yourself in other people's lives
✨ Practical ways to set boundaries without guilt
✨ How to put your own dreams, needs, and happiness back on the list
If you've ever felt responsible for everyone, this episode is for you.
It's time to stop fixing everybody else and start creating a life that feels good for YOU.
xox
 

This episode with Irene is a direct call to take responsibility, stop avoiding hard conversations and decisions, and reclaim your life by facing reality with courage.
Learn why confidence grows through action, how honesty frees you from blame, and a simple challenge to identify what you’re avoiding so you can start handling it today.
xox